That's well said, but remember the film Shallow Hal?, we are human after all and Tinder would'nt be as popular as a hook up ap if looks didnt really matter, That doesnt mean Racking up 250+ swipes to the left on Tinder and counting a new one rep max for the day will get you anywhere, lets not be that shallow.
What's going to help you be the best you?
Try working out, because it helps you win at life.
You see goal setting and achieving dreams inside the weight room or sports related activity helps you set and achieve goals outside the weight room.
The goal-setting/goal-accomplishing cycle is a learned trait. From a very early age, Most winners start to reinforce this idea that if they set their mind to something and tirelessly work towards its accomplishment, the outcome will be positive, you gain good life experience either way.